• The Man With Bare Feet

    “We know things in their depth and beauty only by a second gaze of love.” This concept of a “second gaze of love” is what Richard Rohr refers to as “mirroring.” It means to…

  • Onward to 2017

    I’m currently sitting in Waupaca, Wisconsin. It is my little piece of heaven. I’m always just the right amount of alone at this place. On every side are the tall trees that both block…

  • Stickiness

    In the almost five weeks since the election of Trump, it has still been hard to grapple with reality. The fear is real in that, no matter how predictable it all looks, it is…

  • Finding The Middle

    On my emotionally healthy days, I can navigate my way to a middle-ground. I can spot the minute details of a situation and find commonality. I am willing to erase the line in the…

  • Avoiding the Demon Dance

    I don’t know where your head is at on day two after the presidential election. Yesterday, for me, I could barely think straight. Being a woman felt more real than ever before. Being Mexican…

  • We Are The Lion

    I will be the first to admit that I was one of many to read Gone Girl. Sure, it was a last minute, crap-forgot-to-buy-a-book-before-vacation read. It turned out, however, that my sun soaked days were…

  • A Ninja In The Night

    The brain is a fascinating piece of equipment. Yesterday, on my therapists couch, I called it “crazy.” She called it “smart.” The brain does this thing when you experience something traumatic. Well, I mean, it…

  • Thanks, Kelly Oxford. Here’s My Story…

    When I was seventeen and a senior in high school, a teacher that I trusted began to abuse that trust. It started out seemingly innocent — we bonded over our love for music, so…

  • “Who Told You That You Were Naked?”

    A handful of bizarre things happened when sin entered the world. Sure, we can start at the talking snake and the unwise decisions that followed. But I want to start at the place where Adam…